The films and television shows we watch are built on countless moments—some grand, others achingly small. Among these, the most intimate moments may appear as raw and spontaneous as they feel in real life; but, the truth is they are often as meticulously crafted as a complex stunt scene. Just as precision and planning protect a performer in an action scene, clear boundaries and thoughtful choreography safeguard actors in intimate ones. Acting, like any profession, demands a foundation of respect and safety, and it is vital that the most vulnerable on-screen moments are created with care and integrity. That’s where the intimacy coordinator (IC) comes in.
At Intimacy in Arts, intimacy coordinators (and co-founders) Jade and Georgia deliver a person-centric approach; one that provides performers with the comfort and space to deliver an uninhibited performance, and production staff the peace of mind that they’re balancing the wellbeing of their teams with the creative vision.
What is an Intimacy Coordinator?
An intimacy coordinator, sometimes known as an intimacy director (ID), is the person on set who works to create a safe, respectful, and consensual environment on set for scenes involving intimacy, nudity, or other vulnerable interactions. ICs help set clear boundaries, establish trust, and co-create the choreography of intimate scenes to ensure actors feel secure. This is not just a question of care: it is a foundation for creating more authentic, uninhibited performances.
ICs work closely with directors and actors to balance storytelling goals with the physical and emotional safety of the performers, promoting a set culture where everyone can contribute to the realisation of the artistic vision without compromising personal boundaries.
How to create a culture of consent?
Intimacy Coordinators begin by engaging in thoughtful, detailed conversations with performers to understand their boundaries and assess their physical and emotional comfort levels. These discussions form the foundation of trust and ensure all actions are grounded in consent.
With this understanding, the IC collaborates with the production team to help align the goals of the scene with the performers’ boundaries. Together, the IC, director and performers co-choreograph movements and actions that honour these limits while serving the story. Clear guidelines are then shared with all parties, fostering transparency so everyone knows exactly what to expect and when.
When the cameras roll, the IC is present to support performers and safeguard their well-being. They oversee the use of closed sets, modesty garments, barriers, and other privacy tools to ensure comfort and security. Should concerns arise, the IC acts as an advocate for the actors, addressing issues promptly and reinforcing a culture where consent is at the centre of the creative process.
To find out more, drop us a line: intimacyinarts@gmail.com
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